We live in a world where kindness might often feel like a relic from the past. All over social media are people viciously and eagerly tearing each other down in a variety of ways. They’re debating politics or judging based on appearance. They’re slamming one another’s parenting skills. The debates appear to be devoid of a common aspect of respect for opposing viewpoints.
Is it possible for us to work on this? Is it possible to be kind? How can we reintroduce kindness into our social environment… or is it already present and we simply need to search for it more closely?
When you read the mental health statistics, you might get the impression that no one cares and that kindness is all but extinct. Suicide rates are said to be on the rise. Bullying does not appear to be decreasing, despite repeated warnings about the dangers of emotionally and socially tormenting our fellow humans, particularly children.
But let’s not forget that as unforgiving as the internet can seem, there’s a powerful force for good at work here. At the other extreme, some days you might hop on Facebook and see things coming up in your social media feed that truly amazes, warm the heart and restore your faith in humanity.
You’ll find folks dipping into their own family’s grocery money to help those in need and do it in a heartbeat. There are an astounding number of active, worthy causes making the rounds at any given time. And on any given day, you’ll witness many, many people reaching out to others for validation, love, support, and understanding… and receiving it in great abundance!
People are doing things like walking for suicide awareness. The anti-bullying initiatives abound. And yet, why do we need reminding of the simple act of being good to each other?
Deep down, humans are still kind when it counts. Sometimes, though, it just doesn’t seem that way. But with a little help from our friends and encouragement from each other, we can each do our part to make the world a kinder, gentler, and more considerate place for all.
Do you ever think about how to show kindness to your fellow humans? What simple, meaningful gestures can you offer as a way to deepen the connection with others and share love in small yet memorable ways?
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