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A Tip to balance self care with caregiving #selfcarehabits #hacks
Jun 26, 2025
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hey to my caregivers out there this is
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Michelle with a tailor life for
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caregivers i hope you are well i was
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thinking about something i talked to a
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client and she has multiple payes and I
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thought maybe other caregivers might
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like to for me to share this tip with
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you so if you have multiple payes so if
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you're not familiar with that term where
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you are a caregiver where you are
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assigned by the state to take care of
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someone's incoming payments whether it's
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through social security SSI anything
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like that where you are appointed to be
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able to go to a bank and get funds for
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that person that are paid out to them
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every month so if you are a payee and
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you have people multiple people that you
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have to take care of here is a tip that
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I shared with a client recently
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create your own system if you have a
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payee make sure that you have a file for
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just their information whether it's
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their banking information and email
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address any forms or any phone numbers
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names and phone numbers addresses last
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time you spoke with anybody related to
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that payee create a system for yourself
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where you have a basket or a folder
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where just that person's information
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goes
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and then if you you can even go as far
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as to create your own email address for
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that person with the pay so that way
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anytime you need to look up anything for
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them you can go directly to that email
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account and find anything specifically
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related to that payee now the person I
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was talking to had multiple payes so
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they lived in the same house so that got
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a little bit confusing but we just we
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figured out that if they work on one pay
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per day in the week they can figure out
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what information they needed to do per
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day
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so for example
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the first payee if Tuesday is the day
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you want to work on things for them you
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can give their money to them that day
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you can go check on their bank account
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you can make sure their bills are paid
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follow up on any doctor's appointments
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anything like that if you have anything
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you need to discuss with them if there's
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a change in what they receive or any
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kind of change Tuesday is the day for
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that for your other payee if that day is
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Thursday where you deal with their
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paperwork anything related to scheduling
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their appointments or anything related
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to their money or any changes that need
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to be made you can pick a day for that
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pay so that's what worked for that
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particular client having their pay two
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different days working on those
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different things so they weren't
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thinking about each pay every day
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because here's the other thing you as a
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caregiver you are somebody to be cared
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for too so please please don't forget
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about yourself so when I talked about
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those two payes
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Tuesday Thursday well Monday Wednesday
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Friday Saturday Sunday you can take
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those days to work on your own stuff so
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please don't make caregiving a everyday
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all day thing keep things separate if
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you like tips like these subscribe and
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I'll see you next time
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