Of the many signs that you need new friends, wishing you had new friends who display the positive qualities that you would like to embody yourself is #1 and a good enough reason in itself
But if you need a little bit more convincing, here are some indications that it may be time to find new friends.
Your current relationships are all surface and have no depth. There are different qualities of friendships. Sometimes we enjoy great conversations, share enriching experiences and forge a deep bond with our core group of friends. But other times our conversations just seem like they only skim the surface and people aren’t really getting to know or share in our full potential. That’s a great reason to branch out and search for a new group of quality individuals to spend time with.
At other times, maybe we do engage in an active dialogue with a variety of friends, but the content of the conversation leaves something to be desired. Common themes might include gossiping about others, jealousy, he said/he said stories, and that brand of petty talk that brings us down and keeps us small. This is the kind of dynamic that may have you wishing for some greater quality and substance in your relationships.
Nothing at all seems to be going on. If your friendships have devolved into passing memes around social media with very little personal conversation and no positive action whatsoever, this is a great reason to expand your horizons, head out into the world and get to know some people who are doing good things.
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